thebeebs - Thoughtful Gift? 10 reasons it isn't

Free William on Thoughtful Gift? 10 reasons it isn't

2008-03-11T19:53:51+00:00

I'm gonna try to say this nicely. This post indicates two things clearly. 1. your reading comprehension needs a good deal of work 2. you have no understanding of women Firstly; Adams said in his post "take notice of all the things he or she routinely wishes was in the car", Not "just grab a bunch of random items" which is what you appear to have understood. Secondly; women (and probably men but as a male I observe the former not the latter) like to be noticed. A gift like this clearly demonstrates you have done that, over time. This gift would be worth a good 100,000 points on my scale. Explanation of my woman-pleasing scale; Giving shoulder rub on request = 1 point, Giving shoulder rub because you notice she experiencing sore shoulders = 100 points... you get the picture... I hope you find this useful and your relationships improve.

Martin Beeby on Thoughtful Gift? 10 reasons it isn't

2008-03-12T01:31:10+00:00

Ouch. That was the nice version? I'm really glad I didn't get to read the cutting version. Let’s take the first point: "take notice of all the things he or she routinely wishes was in the car". Advil!? Plasters!? Pens!? And notepads!? These aren't things that she wishes to have in the car, these are things she'll need in the car. In gift terms there is a huge difference between what you want and what you need. My counter to this point is: Women don't like practical gifts. Your second point: Women like to be noticed. Does a necklace not say you've noticed her more than some car junk? Please refer to my point: Women like gifts that make them feel special. Your woman pleasing scale seems perfectly viable. I personal don't rank my relationships on a point scale, but hey ho, thats just me.

Elana on Thoughtful Gift? 10 reasons it isn't

2008-03-12T07:14:58+00:00

Well, I'm really hoping this is a joke post. Cause apparently you don't know many women.

Martin Beeby on Thoughtful Gift? 10 reasons it isn't

2008-03-12T07:20:57+00:00

You're saying because I think women would prefer a necklace over a glorified first aid kit, I don't know women.

Katie on Thoughtful Gift? 10 reasons it isn't

2008-03-14T10:08:46+00:00

I agree with the previous female posters - you have really missed the boat on this one. Yes, some "car junk" that was selected for her just based on your experiences with her and what you think she needs DOES say that you've "noticed her more" than a necklace would. I'd be MUCH happier with the car kit than the necklace. It sounds like Hallmark and Tiffany's have sold you on an extraordinarily skewed understanding of what really makes a woman happy.

Martin Beeby on Thoughtful Gift? 10 reasons it isn't

2008-03-14T10:28:22+00:00

Hmmm... Have you been out with many women? I use a necklace as an example because it was the last present I bought for my girlfriend. It was a silver pendent with three small diamonds. I bought it for her because I wanted her to know she was beautiful and I want her to have something beautiful from me. Something that she could wear for years to come; something that she could give to her grandchildren when they turn 18 along with the story, “here's something I’m giving to you that your granddad gave to me when I was not much older than you” Maybe I should listen to you and give her a Car Kit, but I loved giving her that necklace, and I loved receiving the watch she gave me when I was 21. It was the best present I ever received and it means more to me than any other possession I own.

Liz on Thoughtful Gift? 10 reasons it isn't

2009-11-26T10:20:30+00:00

I'm a woman and I would be very happy with that gift. Her bloke had paid attention to details in her life important to her (but mundane to the rest of us) and made something for her, which gives it points above anything shop bought immediately. And it's just for her. He said he made two, one for her car and one for when she is a passenger in his. Not one for his car so he can nick the tictacs when he wants a mint but has none of his own. That got a huge "Awwwwwww!" off me.

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2010-01-08T01:49:10+00:00

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whitney on Thoughtful Gift? 10 reasons it isn't

2010-01-09T18:22:43+00:00

hmm unlike most of these women, i agree with you. While a car kit is a decent idea as a "Just Because" gift you put together for her, I would be utterly disappointed in my man if this is what he got me for valentines day, my birthday, or xmas. How excited can you be witht hat? "girll, you'll never believe this...he got me a kit of crap for the car"...NO!